What do you do when dates get boring? If you’re in a long-term relationship or have a spouse, dating can get stale after sometime. Many claim that variety is the spice of life, so how do you spice things up?
There are tons of articles that suggest picking an activity, like rock climbing, for couples to bond. Some articles suggest intellectual stimuli of some sort, like reading a book together. I guess I don’t really know what the best method is, it varies for every pair.
Many of my interests overlap with my husbands. This actually makes it more difficult when trying to come up with something brand new to explore. However, we have found a project that seems to include a vast array of our hobbies – we’re going to create a video game. We both have a programming background (my husband excels at the task) we like art, I will do voices…the list goes on.
Brainstorm with each other and see what you come up with, and please share. This could get stale soon and a backup plan never hurts. What do you and your mate do to keep the bond strong? -pm